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squire
Half-elven
Dec 14 2019, 5:23pm
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Another sad bit of news
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Aunt Dora Baggins has posted in the Facebook page for TheOneRing.net that long-time Reading Room regular a.s., formerly posting as an seileachan, passed away from brain cancer this past week.
As I noted there, I'll repeat here:
a.s. was one of those folk on TORn whose every post was worth reading. I regarded her as a friend, and I never met her. She started as an seleichan - no, sorry, an seileachan, I could never learn to spell it, which was endearing in itself - but joined the new boards in 2007 in the new and far more spellable guise of a.s
Her Catholic faith was often a mainstay in our Reading Room discussions, as she got things about Tolkien in that regard that many others of us missed. One of her favorite subjects was the role of Free Will in his works, paralleling her fascination with its workings in God's real world.
Here are a couple, of the dozens easily found by searching for the phrase in her posts:
2007: it always---ALWAYS---comes back to free will!!
2008: free will, you said? - she was well aware of her reputation, and lightly made fun of it at times, before diving into the topic yet again.
Also 2008: if they cannot go to Hell, they do not have free will - part of a really extensive RR discussion on the subject started unwarily by VisualWeasel!
2010: Free will without faith
Well, she could go on and on. But do notice the light-hearted and friendly tone with which she debated deeply held opinions about theology. Nor was she a one-trick pony - this topic was simply her favorite. But she loved Tolkien's work deeply and pitched in on all kinds of subjects and discussions, with the same cheerful and enjoyable voice and spirit.
Here is an example where she explains how to read the passage in the Field of Cormallen which ends:
"...they passed in thought out to regions where pain and delight flow together and tears are the very wine of blessedness." 2008: I don't mean no one else understands that kind of metaphor
In her original post (see lead-in to her question 5) that led to the reply linked above, she remembered that she had enlightened me in an earlier discussion of the same chapter, one which is now lost to the old boards. I've never forgotten that exchange of ours, which has informed my reading of that passage ever since.
One last thing I can't resist: her avatar, or whatever we call it, won my heart practically the first time I saw it. Its return around 2016 after several years of absence was such a thrill: she's back! And yes, she's still on her tummy, waving her legs around, with her nose deeply buried in The Lord of the Rings!
As I imagine she is, even now, only on a cloud instead of the living room rug. Farewell for now, a.s. We'll all see you again soon enough.
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sador
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Dec 14 2019, 7:31pm
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My condolences to her friends and family.
She was always one of my favourites in the Reading Room - whenever she posted anything, it was worth reading.
Thank you for letting us know.
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Kimi
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Dec 14 2019, 10:06pm
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Thank you for this lovely tribute, Squire.
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Aunt Dora also posted about this on Off Topic, to ensure more people would see it.
Mary was a very special person. I have an image of her walking, strong and healthy, in that far green country. That hasn't stopped me from crying much of this morning. But now I'm smiling at the thought of her in her avatar's pose on a fluffy white cloud, understanding all that wisdom we can only glimpse dimly in our current state.
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Aunt Dora Baggins
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Dec 15 2019, 3:29pm
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Thank you for your beautiful tribute, Squire.
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I never met a.s. in real life, though I talked to her on the phone once after her last surgery, when she expressed a wish for visits and phone calls. I always enjoyed her thoughtful posts, but it was on facebook that I felt I was getting to know her better. From her TORn posts I had no idea of her fierce political views, for example. She did talk frequently on TORn about her daughter Emily, and that was also true on facebook.
When I talked to her on the phone she had some brain damage from her surgery, and it was difficult for her to talk, but she mentioned TORn. She said it reminded her of the Jane Austen days when someone in the village would get a letter from a friend, and share it with everyone, so people would feel like they knew this person they may never have met. She said it was amazing to be able to connect with so many people from around the world.
Emily died in November from respiratory problems. Her family waited until they were together at Thanksgiving to tell a.s., who had been drifting in and out of consciousness. It's not clear how much she understood of what they told her.
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uncle Iorlas
Lorien
Dec 16 2019, 6:21pm
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I got a chance to go back through those old posts. I'm sorry I missed here, and sorry you all have to miss her now.
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noWizardme
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Dec 18 2019, 5:19pm
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I would always be happy to see that "a.s." had contributed to a thread - she would so often have an insight or idea to enjoy.
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The Reading Room 'favourite chapters' project. http://newboards.theonering.net/...i?post=967482#967482 Each week, someone presents a favourite chapter from The Hobbit, LOTR or the Silmarillion. Just sign yourself up onto the schedule if you can lead a chapter.
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Morthoron
Gondor
Dec 19 2019, 12:28am
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A star has fallen from the firmament...
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And the light has lessened in the sky. She was adroit, funny and always a worthwhile read. And her avatar was the best.
Slán agus beannacht mhaith, an seileachan. The willow weeps.
Please visit my blog...The Dark Elf File...a slighty skewed journal of music and literary comment, fan-fiction and interminable essays.
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Elizabeth
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Dec 19 2019, 8:31am
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During her illness and lengthy treatment for brain cancer she kept a blog which I followed, and contributed to from time to time. Her courage never flagged. She seemed for a while to have recovered, but it was not to be.
I echo others here regarding her posts, which were always insightful and eloquent. She was among my favorite posters when I was more active here. I know she will be missed by many.
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Voronwë_the_Faithful
Valinor
Dec 19 2019, 7:29pm
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I did not have the opportunity to interact with her in her original days posting here, but I greatly enjoyed reading her posts when she returned in around 2016, and always got a warm feeling when of anticipation when I saw that lovely avatar.
May she rest in peace. 
'But very bright were the stars upon the margin of the world, when at times the clouds about the West were drawn aside.'
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N.E. Brigand
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Dec 29 2019, 3:41am
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I first met Mary and more than another dozen members at the Tolkien conference in 2004 in Milwaukee. I met her again a few days before I first met you: she came to Mythsoc in New Britain, and I was able to give her a ride from the airport. In light of your first link to one of her old comments, it's especially amusing that this was one of her posts from Mythcon, just two months later:
It was fated that I would survive Mythcon!
Treachery, treachery I fear; treachery of that miserable creature.
But so it must be. Let us remember that a traitor may betray himself and do good that he does not intend.
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