Finding friendship along the way, secret and unlooked for...

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Half-elven
It's my turn for a mathom -- today is my 50th birthday, which I share with a friend who first introduced me to Tolkien.

Here I am, a "few" years later, and Tolkien is still a bond for me with my friend of long ago, and the community of folks who gather here.

And what an interesting place this is! Tributes to heroes, book recommendations, pictures of grandkids, returning travelers, Beowulf and Bakshi, inspiring things and funny things -- it's all here. And that's just a glimpse of what's on the Boards right now. Think of all the posts of the past that have come and gone here!

I have only ever met two people from TORn in person, and then for only a few moments. Most here are known to me by the thoughts you have shared, by collaborating with you on things, by working with you on organizing discussions, or your offers of help -- unlooked for and unasked for -- for which I am very grateful. I didn't go looking for any of these when I stumbled through the door looking for a place where people were discussing the LOTR films. I look around now and am amazed at all I found here as well, hidden between the little typed letters that fill these posts.

Tolkien valued comaraderie, and bonds formed over the love of good writing, well formed thoughts, humor and wit, and the simple pleasure that comes from being part of a fellowship that shares a common goal. I would think he'd be right at home here.

To get to this board I have to pass through a Yahoo home page filled with headlines out of Mordor, and there are battles big and small to be fought in all our lives. It strikes me that it is no little thing to find a community of decent people from around the world who come together like this. It is a good thing, that has a ripple effect, I think, in terms of balancing out all the things going on that are tearing people apart. And this is one of only many, many web communities doing the exact same thing, uniting people around common interests, instead of dividing us from one another. Like all things, the web can be used for good or ill, but what happens here, and in places like this, matters deeply, I think -- in ways that go far beyond the things we share and talk about.

So thank you all for bringing this place to life, and to the people who founded and run this place, for providing us with a place where we can all, like Sam, "be expected." To quote Frodo, "Certainly, I looked for no such friendship as you have shown. To have found it turns evil to great good."
 
Your subject line really grabbed me, because that's one of the themes that the movies jettisoned in favor of action and pacing.

You're right about this place. There's nowhere else like it.

Happy 1/2 century!
 
50 is such a wonderful age to celebrate; of course, all the best adventures start then.

I'm hoping that we do cross paths in real life, one of these days, soon.

Cheers on your birthday!
 
Many happy returns of the day!

TORN is a great place, isn't it? I've had my gripes about it over the years, and have spatted with a few people, but I keep coming back, largely because of the intelligence and articulateness (odd word, but "articulacy" seems even odder) of the people who write here. In spite of our political, philosophical, and "filmological" differences, we still pretty much get along. [heart] [:)]
 
for again reminding us of why we are all here (mostly). And enjoy 50 -- I think it was my best year ever!

I was reminded of how old I am getting when I heard today that Brian Wilson turned 65. And Paul McCartney last week.
 
I looked forward so much to being fifty, which I am currently, after I read gramma's great post on her fiftieth birthday. I saved it and used it, and now I'll post it again:

On being fifty, by grammaboodawg:

Subject: YIPPIEE! Jump up&down arms FLAILING! I’m 50 freakin yrs old!!! I’ve

Message: got a bag packed (not too neatly), the seed cake is cooling, the kettle is on the fire, I’ve got two handkerchiefs in my pocketessesss, my cloak is laid out along with my favorite pipe and bag o’ weed, my staff is newly shod, and my front door is painted green. I’m ready for my adventure to begin!

This is the best time, you guys! Stigmas are fading and useless fears are peeled away. I LOVE GROWING OLD! I’m healthy, I love Tolkien and my family, and my family loves me. What else is there?

Ooops…what’s that? Someone’s rapping at the door…
 
50? You do realize, that that's the age at which great adventures have been known to happen [laugh]!

Thank you for your most appropriate words for this place that's a bit like Rivendell [:)] for us all - with a bit of Henneth Annûn thrown in [;)] as well as the Shire [heart]!

So, as gramma said (thank you for that, Aunt Dora, it's one of my favorites also!) it's a good time to begin the adventure of the rest of your life, for who knows what may still be waiting round the corner...
 
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Your 50th? AWESOME!!!! I started having the most fun in my whole life when I hit 50 years old! You are such a joy... and you bring so much to the community, I couldn't help but smile while reading your lovely post and thinking... Well, duh! You're describing yourself, dudette!

I hope you've had a wonderful day and that you're being pampered to the max! I love your mathom. Thank you. Now go get some Ice Cream!
 
I keep coming back to this Fellowship for the very reasons you've so eloquently given. I enjoy your posts although I seldom actively participate myself :-).

A very Happy Birthday to you!
 
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