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Are Middle-earth adventures only for bachelors?

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Oct 11 2013, 5:15am

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"I'm going on an adventure!"

In our newest TORn Library feature, Gibbelins muses on the unwedded status of the Fellowship during the Quest to destroy the Ring in The Lord of the Rings. Could it be that Middle-earth adventures are only for bachelors?

Are adventures only for bachelors?
By Gibbelins

Have you ever thought it odd that everyone in the Fellowship is single? Many of them marry after the adventure is over, but none of them have families at home while they are on the quest. On several occasions, Tolkien seems to make a particular point of Bilbo and Frodo's bachelorhood, without ever explaining why it might be important.

But in the Quest of Erebor, Gandalf gives some inkling of its significance when he is describing why he singled out Bilbo for the journey (Unfinished Tales, 331):

I learned that he had never married. I thought that odd, though I guessed why it was... I guessed that he wanted to remain "unattached" for some reason deep down that he did not understand himself - or would not acknowledge, for it alarmed him.

He wanted, all the same, to be free to go when the chance came, or he had made up his courage.

So if Bilbo had become "attached", would he not have been free to go on adventures? If so, it seems a little unfortunate, that a wife would act as some sort of anchor, preventing a man from being "free" to do as he wills.

But Finrod Felagund also seems to support Gandalf's sentiment:

Now Finrod Felagund had no wife, and [his sister] Galadriel asked him why this should be; but foresight came upon Felagund as she spoke, and he said: "An oath I too shall swear, and must be free to fulfill it, and go into darkness."(Silmarillion, 130).

I can well imagine that Tolkien would have considered it irresponsible for a man to willingly depart on a dangerous adventure if he leaves behind a family that might be helpless if he does not return. (A cursory knowledge of Tolkien's own childhood might assist that belief, but I will not dwell on biographical details here; I prefer to stick to the evidence in his stories.)

The legendarium is full of characters who leave behind their loved ones to go into danger.

Feanor seems to have no compunctions about abandoning his estranged wife Nerdanel and taking their sons with him. Indeed, in some versions of the story, he comes off as rather malicious, intentionally depriving her of her children out of spite that she is not obedient enough to him (The People of Middle-Earth, "The Shibboleth of Feanor").

Many of the Noldor follow Feanor's example and leave their loved ones behind in Aman, but I do not think we are meant to take Feanor as a role model; certainly the Noldor do not profit by that path.

A better example might be Beren, who tries but fails to leave Luthien behind on multiple occasions. The first time he leaves without her, he ends up being imprisoned almost immediately and must be rescued by Luthien. And yet he still tries to leave her behind a second time. Fortunately for him, Luthien will not have it. She repeatedly insists on going with him: "On either road I shall go with you, and our doom shall be alike" (177). It is a good thing Beren listens; he would not have gotten far without Luthien.

Earendil also regularly leaves Elwing behind to sail off in search of the "Straight Road" to Valinor. But his absence ends in disaster. He ends up being away from home when the Havens of Sirion are attacked, and thus his children are taken captive, and his wife Elwing barely escapes. Only then, with Elwing by his side, does Earendil finally find what he seeks.

So perhaps the message is not really that you must remain "unattached" if you want to go on adventures.

A better message would be: take your lover with you on all your adventures! You're probably going to need her (or him).

(This post was edited by entmaiden on Oct 11 2013, 1:07pm)

Subject User Time
Are Middle-earth adventures only for bachelors? News from Bree Send a private message to News from Bree Oct 11 2013, 5:15am
    Thorin and Company Otaku-sempai Send a private message to Otaku-sempai Oct 11 2013, 12:00pm
        Gloin and Bombur are the only dwarves that are married, according to the character bios... DeadRabbits Send a private message to DeadRabbits Oct 11 2013, 12:42pm
        Also Imladris18 Send a private message to Imladris18 Oct 11 2013, 2:07pm
            Aragorn Otaku-sempai Send a private message to Otaku-sempai Oct 11 2013, 6:44pm
                There is also Galadrial and Celeborn patrickk Send a private message to patrickk Oct 11 2013, 8:35pm
                    Do Galadriel and Celeborn count as adventurers? Otaku-sempai Send a private message to Otaku-sempai Oct 12 2013, 12:23pm
    Funny timing, this The Grey Elf Send a private message to The Grey Elf Oct 11 2013, 1:11pm
        Bard's a little different, though. RosieLass Send a private message to RosieLass Oct 11 2013, 3:27pm
        Bard Otaku-sempai Send a private message to Otaku-sempai Oct 11 2013, 6:42pm
    I just always assumed.... FrodoEyes Send a private message to FrodoEyes Oct 11 2013, 1:14pm
    I guess I should move to ME and go on an adventure Misty Mountain Hop Send a private message to Misty Mountain Hop Oct 11 2013, 2:12pm
    Well, I should hope that someone with family responsibilities... RosieLass Send a private message to RosieLass Oct 11 2013, 3:24pm
    Azog, Elrond, Gloin, Denethor, Thranduil or Bard to name a few fathers Lieutenant of Dol Guldur Send a private message to Lieutenant of Dol Guldur Oct 11 2013, 8:44pm
        Its obviously really bad luck Adanel Send a private message to Adanel Oct 11 2013, 11:38pm
            Perhaps Na Vedui Send a private message to Na Vedui Oct 12 2013, 1:43am
    "Won't somebody please think of the children?" Silverlode Send a private message to Silverlode Oct 12 2013, 7:05am
    Yes and No IdrilofGondolin Send a private message to IdrilofGondolin Oct 12 2013, 3:19pm
    Apologies to mods .. I meant to direct that to the RR! // Demosthenes Send a private message to Demosthenes Oct 13 2013, 2:10am
        We maybe making the Same mistake over & over.. Bombadil Send a private message to Bombadil Oct 13 2013, 3:03pm


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